Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Catch Up

I can't believe it has been a month since I've updated the blog. But between Pudding's recovery, soccer season, end-of-school year activities for both boys and continuous trips to various doctors, I've had no time to even catch up on reading my favorite blogs, let alone update this one.
So onto Pudding's recovery (or, as it's affectionately known around our household, "Two-Weeks-of-Hell"): it was not fun. Not only was it not fun, it as downright miserable. My poor, sweet boy cried non-stop, 24-hours-a-day, for two entire weeks. He didn't leave my lap for more than two minutes at a time, and that includes during the night. He wouldn't eat or drink and I can't even count how many times I had pain medicine spit back into my face. One of the biggest drawbacks to having this surgery so soon after coming home was that we couldn't communicate to him that drinking would make his throat feel better. He refused all liquids. Our little guy dropped 6 pounds over those two weeks...precious pounds he didn't have to lose. I felt so helpless as he sobbed in my lap all day. While the recovery process left my patience level at an all time low, I'm happy to say that it was a huge step forward in bonding. This kid didn't leave my side for an instant over those two weeks; I now jokingly refer to him as my shadow. It has been such a reversal from our time in China when he had such a preference for Stu. Now he wants me non-stop, all the time. He won't even go to Stu if he knows I'm home. I am also thrilled to say that his surgery was a major success. Not only does he feel so much better but he is SLEEPING THROUGH THE NIGHT!! In his own room, no less! He still needs me to lay down with him but after he finishes his bottle (yes, he still gets a nighttime bottle...I don't want to force too many changes right now) he tells me "night-night", turns over and goes right to sleep. Yahoo!! I feel like a brand new woman now that I'm back to getting 7-8 hours of uninterrupted sleep each night.
Pudding's adjustment to the language change is amazing. While he is still catching up verbally, he understands probably about 90% of what we say (and I suspect the other 10% is his "selective hearing"). We've also been working on sign language with him and both HD and him are quickly picking it up. He signs more than 20 words without prompting and knows upwards of 40-50 signs! He is definitely able to let us know what he wants. HD is unbelievable at signing. If you show her a sign one time she absorbs it like a sponge. She knows almost 75 signs and her language has exploded alongside of signing. Speaking of HD, she is doing great. Over the past couple of months she has bloomed into such a sweet little girl. Now HD likes to be the life of the party. She is the first out on the dance floor when the music starts playing and is the first to greet guests in our house; such a difference from our shy, bashful toddler who wouldn't look a stranger in the face. She is talking up a storm and finishes almost every sentence with "honey". It is beyond cute. You walk into her room in the morning and she greets me with "Good morning honey." If she sees Pudding upset she'll squat down next to him and ask, "What's wrong honey?" She's turned into such a girly-girl too. She always wants her toenails polished (thanks Puffy!), loves to wear dresses and insists on having her hair pulled back with a bow. Little girl will even smile at the camera now! I'm not sure how long it will last so we're getting some new pictures of her taken tomorrow since she didn't smile in one single picture at her 2-year-portraits.


The Bigs are doing great too. Chipmunk just finished first-grade (how is that possible?!?) and is smart as a whip. He's reading books and doing math that I didn't attempt until I was in 3rd and 4th grade. Multiplication tables in 1st grade? Really? At this rate his schoolwork is going to be over my head by the time he's in middle school. He loves our new neighborhood and is looking forward to a long summer of bike rides and playdates with friends.
Monkey is Monkey. He is the sweetest, funniest and most mischievous little boy ever! He graduated from preschool last week and I still can't believe that he'll be in kindergarten in the fall. He is super-smart and academically ready for it but I still view him as my lovable little toddler. I'm really going to miss having him with me for most of the day. He lost his first tooth last week, followed by another one today. I knew he was nervous when both of his bottom teeth were very loose, so I told him how cool it would be when he lost both of them and he'd have a hole big enough to fit an M&M through it with his teeth closed. He started to get excited about it and was so disappointed when we discovered his permanent teeth were already in place behind his baby ones, so no big hole for him. An ice cream sundae quickly cheered him up though;-)

Okay, I think I've caught up on the last month. Now the challenge is to stay up-to-date which might be a challenge since we'll be lounging around the beach next week! Stu had some downtime in his schedule and I'm desperate for a little vacation (and no, China did NOT count as a vacation) so we've planned a little impromptu trip to my family's condo in Florida. The Bigs are so excited, as am I; not sure how the Littles will do but I think between the beach and the pool that we will all have a good time. We're also hoping to meet up with some blog buddies and have a little Kyrgyz reunion. I cannot wait!


My newest little monkey


Happy in the sunshine


Looks like we'll have another visit from the Tooth Fairy


So proud of my Chipmunk at his school's awards ceremony


Pudding showing off the goofy smile he does everytime he sees a camera!


HD loved the baby bunny my brother rescued from the lawn mower and was so sad when we returned him to his home


Chipmunk cruising in his cousin's Barbie jeep


My little graduate and his proud Papa

11 comments:

Christen and Frank said...

I can't believe it's been so long either. Looks like everyone is doing great....

Sorry to hear that the surgery was so rough for Pudding. It's great that he's sleeping so well now, though. Hopefully that makes up for it.

Jackie said...

So glad you are past the surgery recovery and two weeks of $#&& ;) I am so looking forward to seeing you and your littles next week. Woo hoo!!!

Fun Craft Projects said...

What a fun family you have! I'm so happy to see you're little guy is doing better :)
-Ashley

Christina said...

Glad to see that things are good with the bigs and the littles. You have such a precious family. Enjoy your vacation.

Carey and Norman said...

Great update. So sorry to hear about the post surgery recovery period, but we understand your feelings as we had the same issues with communication and having surgery so soon after coming home. I'm so thankful to be on this side of the process.

Glad to hear that the little Monkey is becoming more and more attached and that surgery helped pull him closer to you! We found the same to be true for us too!!

Michelle said...

What a super-beautiful family! Can't wait to meet up with you guys sometime soon!

Lisa Odland said...
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Lisa Odland said...

Wow, what an amazing mother you are! I'm guessing you have probably encountered this before, but in case you haven't, you need to. You have a secret twim out there: a mother of many adopted children, and she blogs too! http://fromthetrenchesofadoption.blogspot.com/
You're both incredible!

Grace said...

hello! i stumbled upon your blog by clicking on that "next blog" button at the top of my blog page. my blog chronicles our adoption journey (we are waiting for our baby boy to come home from korea) and blogger must be able to detect my tags, etc because i have come across a lot of blogs about adoption by clicking on that button. :) i love reading others' adoption stories and am glad i stumbled upon your blog -- your family is beautiful!

Margaret and Tom said...

Glad to see the update...it has been a long time for me to even check others blogs, so I totally understand! Have a great vacation! Glad Puddin is doing better now, sorry the surgery recovery was so rough...

Mario and Lisa said...

Good to see the update! I've been wondering how you all were doing. Whew! Glad the recovery stage is over and you have moved into a happy nights stage.